£500 donation helps Friendship at Home let the vulnerable know they’re not forgotten

A £500 donation from Freemasons charity the MCF is helping a Cleethorpes-based organisation to beat the lockdown misery for elderly and vulnerable people no longer able to attend its regular get-togethers.

Friendship at Home offers a volunteer befriending service to older people in North East Lincolnshire who are lonely and isolated – but has had to modify the way it works as a result of the ongoing lockdown faced by its clients.

The value of the service is summed up by Sally*, a 90-year-old user of the Friendship at Home service. She’s really missing the Tuesday Club and lunch club session she regularly attended. In a tearful phone call she said: “People don’t realise it’s not just the staying in; it’s the fact that I have no-one to call and nothing to do or look forward to. The days seem endless.

“That club was my weekly lifeline and the activities gave me something to look forward to. The phone calls I receive from the volunteers mean so much, as they ask not only about whether I have bread and milk but about my personal hobbies and interests and if I’d like anything picking up. I was really having a down day, and out of the blue there was a knock at the door. I opened it and there on the step was a beautifully wrapped parcel with a big puzzle, ‘Life Story’ Journal and bag of wool to knit for the Special Care Baby Unit. It was great surprise which will keep me busy for a long time, and I’m doing something useful for those little babies. Thank you my friends at Friendship at Home; it truly is the right name for you.”

Doreen* said: “How kind to think that people are sending me this lovely present.  I am 94 and I am on my own as all my family and friends have passed away. It is really kind of you to deliver something to keep my brain going as well as the shopping you have done for me.” Her thoughts were echoed by Iris*, who said: “Thank you so much for thinking of me. I will enjoy doing the word search and the crafts will keep me out of trouble. It just means a lot to know that I haven’t been forgotten.”

Friendship at Home Operational Manager Lyse Stephenson said: ” The £500 grant will make such a difference to our members as it enables them to take part in activities that they would usually be able to enjoy at our clubs and with their friends.  By taking part in these activities it not only passes many solitary minutes, but communicates they have not been forgotten in these lonely times.  We are seeing such a positive bearing on their mental health; thank you, Freemasons and the MCF.”

The Friendship at Home website says: “It is recognised that loneliness can lead to depression and in turn, lack of confidence, low self-esteem and the withdrawal from social groups and activities.

“Our volunteer befrienders are there to offer company and friendship to those who are, primarily, living on their own. We at Friendship at Home work on a one-to-one basis, which means strong bonds are formed between the member and their befriender. The service ensures, through careful matching with our volunteers, that they have something in common – which is a foundation on which to build.

“The benefits of having someone to sit and talk to, share a trip to the garden centre, read a book or play a game of cards, can really make a difference to an older person’s wellbeing. We offer befriending either in the member’s own home, or in a residential home setting. It is apparent that although people are placed in residential care, some may still feel loneliness and isolation. We now have our volunteer befrienders who spend one-to-one time with those who need it in several care homes with in North East Lincolnshire.”

*We’ve changed her name to protect her identity.

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