

A chance remark by the retiring Secretary of a Lincolnshire Freemasons’ Lodge set off a train of thought leading to a donation to help a cancer support group.
The result of the the remark led to £500 being raised The Bladder Cancer Support Group from a raffle at the silver anniversary meeting of Lincolnshire Freemasons’ Provincial Grand Stewards Lodge, when Robin Wilmhurst’s sterling service as Secretary was marked by the gift of a food hamper – but members didn’t think that was enough.
Was there anything else that the Lodge could do to show its appreciation to Robin? The Lodge’s new Master Pete Adams writes: “I’d got to know Robin well over the last few years. He has a fine sense of humour and we’ve enjoyed some excellent chats. Along the way, it became clear that he has encountered some personal challenges and I wondered if the Lodge could be of assistance to him and others in a similar situation.
“In passing, Robin had mentioned The Bladder Cancer Support Group. It’s been running for about fifteen years, is totally independent and seeks to support all patients with this condition as well as their families and carers. The meetings are informal and a highly beneficial way to shareexperiences. They take place in locations such as village halls. Robin’s informal comments were duly noted, but no more was said until our raffle at the anniversary meeting.
“I announced that the raffle proceeds would be for The Bladder Cancer Support Group in acknowledgement of Robin’s excellent work and well-earned retirement. The fact that exactly £500 was raised reflects the high esteem that Robin commands.
“Originally, Robin had been unsure about staying to share our meal, but was persuaded otherwise. That was no small challenge in itself. When previous Master Bryan Skinner presented him with the food hamper he was quite taken aback. Then when the raffle objective was announced and the proceeds counted he was almost lost for words. This double surprise was a fitting way to show our appreciation to Robin and to help the support group that means so much to him and to others.”
Two weeks later, Robin and Pete went to Sutton on Sea to present the raffle proceeds to retired nurse Angie Ellis, who runs the support group. She was absolutely delighted and mentioned that she is putting a book together that is full of patients’ personal journeys and experiences.